Showing posts with label how I met my husband. Show all posts
Showing posts with label how I met my husband. Show all posts

How I Became My Husband's Girlfriend

Here comes part tres - I'm working on my spanish - of my 5-8+ part series about my relationship with my husband. It has been fascinating so far and I know you can't wait for the next installment. I've talked about how I met my husband and how I got to know him. Now we're getting to the dating part of our relationship.

Dating... if you can call it that. We basically went from "hanging out" to being "exclusive." I'm not sure "why" I feel the "need" to keep "using" those "quotation marks." Anyways, our transition from hanging out to exclusive happened on a Friday afternoon in ... late November early December. Guy and I were at his parents house watching Road to Perdition. Very romantic. We were leaning up against the couch on the floor in the living room. The movie ended and we -

oh wait! I don't think I told you guys about when Guy watched the entire Pride and Prejudice circa 1995. My favorite film version of that story. He sat through the whole 6 hours. Not in one sitting mind you, but it happened. That sealed the deal for me (#priorities), and this happened during our hang out phase. He was putting in the time that's for sure.

Anyways, we were watching the credits and Guy turns to me and says these fatal fateful words, "So, why don't we call this what it is? ......... Will you be my girlfriend?"
Me: "Yeah"
Guy: "Can I kiss you now?" (we had only been occasionally holding hands up to this point)
Me: "Yup"

Aaaaand that's where my story ends.

Some might accuse Guy of asking me out only to get in my pants. Thankfully he proved that train of thought false when he decided to stick around. I sure made it difficult for him to do that though.


^^This picture is from just a few months later. Aren't we such a happy couple?^^

Look out for a post about dating sometime in the future of this blog.

Peace and Prosperity
(I'm trying out different blog sendoffs ... send offs ... this one seems legit)

How I Met My Husband

**I thought I had posted this before we left for our trip to Michigan! Sorry for the lack of photos**

Today I started to study for my last level II fieldwork (<warning, this link downloads a 4 page paper explaining what a level II fieldwork is for occupational therapy students). I had a phone conversation with my clinical instructor and she told me that in the past year she has had 6 students and has not wanted to pass any of them. But she also told me that she did not want to scare me away ... yeahhhhh. Too late. But I am bound to study and come fully prepared for whatever I may encounter.

Anyways, as our 3rd wedding anniversary approaches (it was on the 19th/it pasted) I thought I would start sharing our love story. :) cue either the awwwwws or gags. Whichever suits you. I am doing this mostly because I want to write down details that I may not remember even 3 years from now. There are already a lot of things I don't remember. I love history and looking back at where I have come. I would like to be able to share things with my future children and read these posts in the future when feeling nostalgic.

Here goes ......

Apparently, the story is that the first time Guy and I met was in the Pioneer Memorial Church on the campus of Andrews University. It was during a weekly chapel in the fall. I was a freshman. Guy grew up with my brother's wife. At the time my sister-in-law and brother were just dating. They were all sitting together in chapel. I was walking by to say hi to my brother and his girlfriend and while chatting with them Guy was introduced to me. Guy says that he thought I was cute, but didn't think anything would come of our introduction. I apparently was too distracted by another guy that I was interested in at the time. (If only I had known that he wasn't trully interested in me .... that's another story for another time). So, I walked away and .... I DON'T REMEMBER THIS AT ALL. This is Guy's story.

My story of our first encounter goes like this:
It was the fall. I was a freshman and loving it. I had made several good friends with some freshmen girls who had graduated from the local Adventist academy (Guy went to that academy). Every year that academy has an alumni versus students flag football game during their alumni weekend. This is a big deal for the academy and my friends dragged me along to watch the game. (I probably shouldn't have gone to that game as I distinctly remember  I wasn't going to go because I was trying to study for anatomy, which I promptly failed that semester *oops*)

While, we were socializing at the game, one of my friends spotted her then boyfriend hanging with a group of his friends, one of which was Guy. My friend and her boyfriend had had some type of disagreement and she wanted me to walk over with her to act as kind of a buffer while she reconnected with her boyfriend. (I think, the details are already getting fuzzy). I do remember her saying, "You can meet Guy and talk to him."

So, we walk over there and I am introduced to Guy. He is sitting on a bench kind of leaning forward and his hood was on his head. I really didn't get a good look at him. Our conversation was trivial. I remember talking about the game Uno. He seemed nice and I remember being interested to a degree. I had my sights on someone else, though. (And not the guy that was mentioned in Guy's version of the story. Don't hate.) One of my friends came over and asked if I wanted to go with her to get some french fries from McDonald's, which was right by the football field. I agreed to go and when I came back Guy was gone. Apparently, my conversation was not as riveting as I thought. Guy says that he wasn't going to wait around for me to come back. So, he left with his friends.

Whether my story or Guy's is the right one, we met in the fall of 2008 at Andrews University. That much we agree on. 

Look out for the dating years next. I'll give you a hint. I was pretty much an emotional wreck the whole time.